The idea of perseverance differs for many individuals. Firstly, let me define what is theoretically meant by perseverance: (got it off google) "
persistence in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success."
Perseverance to me is the ability to endure the challenges, hardships and to never give up, in light of fighting for the goal you want to achieve. This value of perseverance came about when I was a kid, probably at the age of 7. Perseverance was one of the two core values in my Primary School, Kong Hwa Primary. (The other value being sincerity). I first realised its importance when I was with my mum, at 光明山(Kong Meng San Phor Kark See Monastry) during Vesak Day, where we were attending the
三步一拜event. My knees were bleeding because I scratched it against the road surface, but I wanted to complete it, so I decided not to let my mum know, or else she'd stopped me. The pain was excruciating... But to be able to receive the blessings from the monk at the end of the journey, I chose to endure, to persevere! When my mum saw my knees, she got so worried. However, as she was treating my wound, she said, "Your school really taught you well, the value of perseverance"
In my secondary school days, Basketball trainings were tough like... You've got to go through it to understand, I can't explain it using words. The thought of having to wake up on early Saturday morning, running up and down the stairs~
Coach: "今天跑十圈楼梯!"
Me (thoughts): "Are you f***ing kidding me?!?!"
As much as I wanted to tell him that... I dare not defy his orders, so, persevere on! Especially since my teammates are doing the exact same thing, I've got no excuse.
Anglican High School Basketball 08'
The feeling after training, heavenly! I can just sit at the stadium for an hour or so before leaving. Till today, I've never experienced that kind of feeling from trainings. I really miss those days!
Coming into SR, the running culture made me strengthen my value of perseverance. To those who may not know, I hated running back in secondary school! The process of running, till today I still agree, sucks! But!!! The end result is the sweetest! Each time I managed to run the same distance within a shorter time, I felt that sense of accomplishment, AND THE REASON IS, I PERSEVERED, despite being fatigued.
This value is the reason why I managed to complete my Standard Chartered Marathon last year!
Side track: My marathon experience
December 1st, 2013, 3:30 am was the time I woke up... Who on earth wakes up at such crazy time? Me, and those running the marathon. I went for the Marathon without much training, though many people advised me to train! My mindset was that since I managed to complete 21km, I would be able to complete a Marathon. Yeah, it's pretty damn screwed up mindset. To those who have the same thought, NEVER think like that. I had a goal, to complete it within 4 hours and 15mins, but not much training, it was just a hopeless aim.I started off my marathon with my friend, Ben, (who somehow eventually completed the run! I called him up after I reached home, had lunch and preparing to sleep.)
Me: "Hello Ben, where are you now?
Ben: Still running... The safety cars are like behind me. I can count the number of runners behind, about 20, and I met a new friend"
Me: "Seriously... It's 1:15pm and you are still running!! 8 hours plus already"
However, salute to him for completing the run!
During the run, I did something really hilarious! The volunteers were giving out muscle rub at the 18km mark. Before the race, I saw on the map, there was energy gel at the 18km mark also! So you could guess.. I took the muscle rub, thinking it was energy gel, and placed it in my mouth. I ran back to the volunteers right at that instance!! As I approached, I heard:
Volunteers: "Oh my god, that guy f***ing stupid, eat the muscle rub!"
Okayyyy... What a douche.. Nevertheless, he helped me, gave me water to gurgle. Fortunately or not, I felt so awake, because my tongue was burning~
I JUST NEED TO CARRY ON!
For 26km, it was comfortable pace, and I could have achieved my goal! My 21km mark timing: 1 hour 45mins
Once I past the 26km mark, my calf muscle tensed up... cramps.... urghhhhhh!!! First being stupid, now being helpless.. It was really severe cramp, I lay down on the road, and fortunately, people wearing superhero costumes helped me: Zorro and Batman. Really embarrassed, and participants even stopped to take photo of them helping me -.- I swear never in my life have I felt so helpless.. I regretted not taking the advice of having to train for my marathon. For the next 10km, each time I tried to run, the cramps will return, so I had no choice, but to walk, and just persevere on! This mantra ran through my head, whenever I wanted to just sit down and give up, "Perseverance is what I stand for"
Eventually, I managed to run to the finish line, but the timing was so off my goal.. During the walk, I saw senior citizens running faster than me, yet I could not do anything about it... Sucks!! Nonetheless, I completed 42.195km, within 4 hours, 55mins 37secs. It was really about perseverance, and to push on despite the obstacles ahead.
Through these experiences, I realise that having the value of perseverance helped me alongside my studies, and other goals that I would like to achieve! As long as you do not give up, nothing is impossible, and I strongly believe in this, (as egoistic as it may sound) I've got no limits. That's because I'm one stubborn kid, who has never once let obstacles get the better of me.
Perseverance is what I stand for